As believers, we should be good to people.
Onesiphorus - great example of what to be and what to be as a believer and a friend.
Paul was a great friend and had great friends: can see this from groups, fellowship tender words, was ripped away when had to leave them, was gifted.
Examples: Onesimus, Epaphroditus, Priscilla, Aquila, Thychicus (a beloved brother), Tertius, Ampliatus (my beloved in the Lord), Luke (with him during his imprisonment), Timothy, and of course, Onesiphorus.
Paul = writing to Timothy from an awful prison to encourage and instruct. Probably = last words. He was lonely, and knows his time is coming to an end.
2 Tim. 1:13-15 - Guard and Practice because:
1) People will abandon the faith. Example: Matt. 13:20-21 - Parable of the sower. When hard times come, is a time for growth, the real believers stay firm.
So, build and train - is good to know the 'why' we believe.
2) Serving the Lord can FEEL lonely But, are never alone if really in the faith. Psm. 94:14, Matt. 28:20, Heb. 13:5-6, Rom. 8:31-35
Temptation.
Lessons from Onesiphorus. 2 Tim. 1:16-18
A. Be a real bro. Prov. 17:17 How?
B. Be present - ministry of presence is fairly easy now. Was a lot harder in Paul's time.
C. Make an effort - Matt. 25:37-40 traveled a long distance to go to Paul. searched earnestly, at great risk, had a history of service
D. Have your brother's back. He was not ashamed of Paul. Was a friend all the time. Gal. 6:2, Heb. 13:1-3, John 13:34-35, John 15:13 - greater love hath no man.... Brothers should defend, care for each other. We should have a special love for other Christians
E Inspire others to be better believers. We can be inspired by others to do better.
Heb. 11, Heb. 12:1-2, 1 Cor. 11:1 - Imitate me as I imitate Christ --- let that be a goal in our lives.
How can we stir up love and good works Heb. 10:24 - one of the chief jobs of Christians
Challenge: think am I refreshing the saints? Am I loyal to God and his people? Am I pulling people to or pushing them away? Can't love the Lord and hate His people.
Closing Scripture: Eph. 4:29-5:2