Have you ever felt like God has been silent in your life? Have you ever felt spiritually dry and that God is far away? What do you do?
1.) Listen
1 Samuel 3 gives us an example of listening to God. Samuel was a young boy living in the temple and he heard someone call his name. He runs to Eli and Eli told him that he had not called for him. After a couple more times. Eli says to Samuel to the voice "Speak, LORD, for your servant hears." Presumably Samuel got still and quiet and listened. How often do you sit in silent and listen?
a.) Take some time
Psalm 42:1-2a (ESV) "As a deer pants for flowing streams, so pants my soul for you, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God,"
We desire that connection with God. Lord I want to hear from you. We should desire a connection with God.
1 Thessalonians 5:17 (ESV) "pray without ceasing,"
Pray, read the scriptures....pray through the scriptures.
b.) Get rid of distractions
Matthew 6:6 (ESV) "But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you."
When it comes to God we must ACTIVELY listen. Be alone with God and hear from Him. If God spoke to you would you even hear Him? Is your life so loud that you cannot hear from God?
2.) Go where God speaks
a.) Bible
The authors of the books of the Bible were carried along by the Holy Spirit.
2 Timothy 3:16-17 (ESV) "All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work."
God has spoken and it is recorded in the Bible you just have to read it. Pray while reading through the scriptures. The more that you read it you will learn from it. We need to allow the scriptures to sink into our hearts and let them change how we think. We need to STUDY the scriptures to hear from God. Write what you learn down that you can apply to your life.
b.) Go to Church
Sing the songs, think about them and praise God. God can use preachers and Sunday school teachers to us.
Psalm 122:1 (ESV) "I was glad when they said to me, 'Let us go to the house of the LORD!'"
Are you excited to go to church? Why would you not want to go gather with other believers.
c.) Seek close fellowship with other believers
Pray together, share and encourage one another. 1 Corinthians 12 tells us that we are the body of Christ. Independent members of Christ. Surround yourself with the body. Let them minister to you, let them be apart of your life.
3.) Unclog your heart
Sin is the plaque that clogs our spiritual heart. It makes us weak and ineffective and hinders our prayers and our walk. It hinders our fellowship with other believers.
Isaiah 59:1-2 (ESV) "Behold, the LORD's hand is not shortened, that it cannot hear, but your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden his face from you so that he does not hear."
Psalm 66:18 (ESV) "If I had cherished iniquity in my heart, the Lord would not have listened."
Sin can harm our walk with the Lord. It can hinder our relationship with Him and hear from Him. We can cherish iniquity. An iniquity is more of an habitual act of rebellion, deep seated, premeditated, unrepentant. Iniquity can mess with us all. It can harm our relationship with God. An example of iniquity is what David did with Bathsheba and Uriah. That event set off a chain reaction in David's life that caused a lot of problems for him.
a.) Confess to God
Psalm 32:1-5 (ESV) "Blessed is the one whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered. Blessed is the man against whom the LORD counts no iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit. For when I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my strength was dried up as by the heat of summer. I acknowledged my sin to you, and I did not cover my iniquity; I said, 'I will confess my transgressions to the LORD,' and you forgave the iniquity of my sin."
We cannot be comfortable with our sin in our lives. We cannot be pleased with it in our lives. We must confess to God.
1 John 1:9 (ESV) "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
When you confess to God, your are aligning your mind and your heart and your will to that of God's. You are saying to God that I know that these things are not right and I am aligning myself with You. I need help with that. God promises to forgive and to heal. We also should confess to each other so that you can have someone hold you accountable. Also if you have wronged someone we need to confess to them and ask forgiveness.
James 5:16 (ESV) "Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working."
When you confess it is like you are accepting a plea deal. Taking the power of the enemy away from him. He cannot use it against you because you have already confessed it. We need accountability in our lives.
b.) Repent
You cannot just say you are sorry, you have to be repentant. You have to change your heart.
Matthew 5:29-30 (ESV) "If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell."
Jesus is showing us that sin is spiritually deadly. He is talking about the seriousness of sin. Whatever is causing you to stumble, remove it from your life. When we clean out our heart it becomes more sensitive to the things of God.
If someone confesses to you their sin, then you need to look at your own heart and make sure that you are forgiving people. Unforgiveness can be a sin. Unforgiveness can clog up your heart. You should not hold on to a grudge. Nothing will tear apart a family more than unforgiveness. We have to learn to forgive one another. It sometimes can overflow into the church.
4.) Be faithful in the little things
The parable of the talents... the servant that had been given 5 talents doubled it, the one that had 2 talents doubled it, and the one that had 1 talent buried it. When the master came back he rewarded the first two and took away from the third. When God gives you something to do, do it. Sometimes it is easy and sometimes it is difficult.
Matthew 25:23 (ESV) "His master said do him, 'Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.'"
Why should God give you more direction, why should God give you more closeness, when you won't take the step with the little things. Most of us know of something that God is calling you to do or repent of but you are refusing to do it. Why should God give us something else when we are not faithful with the little things. Most of us know what we should do and don't do it.
Your feelings can lead you astray. That church camp feeling. You come home and then you think "God left", but God never left. You stopped reading your bible, you stopped praying, you stopped praising God for hours a day.
Proverbs 16:9 (ESV) "The heart of a man plans his way, but the LORD establishes his steps."
If we are being faithful and honoring God, then He is directing us and handling things behind the scenes.
Closing Scripture:
Psalm 32: 8-11 (ESV) "I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you. Be not like a horse or a mule, without understanding, which must be curbed with bit and bridle, or it will not stay near you. May are the sorrows of the wicked, but steadfast love surrounds the one who trusts in the LORD, and rejoice, O righteous, and shout for joy, all you upright in heart!"