Ephesians 3:14-21 (ESV) "For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith- that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen."
Paul started chapter 3 with "For this reason..." then he went off topic and in verse 14 he gets back to "For this reason..."
I. Bow your knees.
There are different postures used when people pray. Christians typically have their hands folded in prayer and bowed heads. Mormons cross their arms and place their hands under their arms. Old Testament Jews set Biblical president to get down on their knees in prayer. Daniel prayed on his knees.
Daniel 6:10 (ESV) "When Daniel knew that the document had been signed, he went to his house where he had windows in his upper chamber open toward Jerusalem. He got down on his knees three times a day and prayed and gave thanks before his God, as he had done previously."
Solomon prayed prayed on his knees when the temple was dedicated.
2 Chronicles 6:13 (ESV) "Solomon had made a bronze platform five cubits long, five cubits wide, and three cubits high, and had set it in the court, and he stood on it. Then he knelt on his knees in the presence of all the assembly of Israel, and spread out his hands toward heaven,"
Jesus was on his knees in the Garden of Gethsemane in prayer.
Mark 14:35-36 (ESV) "And when the men of that place recognized him, they sent around to all that region and brought to him all who were sick and implored him that they might only touch the fringe of his garment. And as many as touched it were made well."
Bowing on ones knees is a sign of submission, shows seriousness and reverence. There is something about bowing before God that clears our minds become focused on God. James, the brother of Jesus, was a Christian leader in Jerusalem, he was known for his extensive prayer life. His knees were so swollen from the amount of time he spent on his knees in prayer that he was called "Camel knees". Edward Payson of Portland (1827) spent so much time on his knees in prayer that he wore grooves in the floorboards next to his bed. John Knox a preacher in the 1500's was taken captive and placed on a French ship and worked as a slave. It is said that he spent so much time on his knees in prayer would pray "Lord, give me Scotland or I die". Mary Queen of Scots said "I fear the prayers of John Knox more than all the assembled armies of Europe."
II. Prayer is the greatest ministry.
Prayer doesn't require a budget or approval or a meeting to discuss. It is something we can just do on our own.
James 5:16b (ESV) " The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working."
James 4:2 (ESV) "You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask."
We can all have this ministry God can use our prayers. Prayer really works!
A woman by the name of Monica who lived in the 300's had a husband who was a pagan and very violent. She also had a wild rebellious son. She wept and prayed for 17 years for her son. It was said "It is impossible that the son of so many tears should perish." In 387 her son was baptized...her son was Augustine of Hippo, a Christian theologian and philosopher.
Another woman who prayed was Susanna (1669-1742). Susanna had 19 children only 10 survived to adulthood. Their small home burnt down and her husband was sent to debtors prison. She and her children lived in a small home where she homeschooled them, teaching them Latin, Greek and Bible. It is said that she would sit with her apron over her head to get some "privacy" and pray for her children. Two of her sons were John and Charles Wesley.
Ephesians 3:15 (ESV) "from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named,"
It all began with Abraham, one family, one clan that became 12 tribes, 1 Israel. YHWH over all. All are one in Christ Jesus.
Ephesians 4:4-7 (ESV) "There is one body and one Spirit- just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to you call- one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all. But grace was given to each one of us according to the measure of Christ's gift."
III. Use scripture as a guide.
You can use the Lord's Prayer as a guide. You can copy it down and pray it to help you learn to pray. Jesus and Paul would pray scripture.
Ephesians 3:16 (ESV) "that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being,"
IV. Pray for the spiritual wellbeing.
Paul cares about the peoples spiritual wellbeing more than their physical wellbeing
V. Pray that God will strengthen them to the core.
Acts 1:8 (ESV) "But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria and to the end of the earth."
Romans 1:16 (ESV) "For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek."
A. To be a witness
B. Stand strong in temptation and adversity. Ephesians 6:10-11 (ESV) "Finally, be strong in the Lord and in strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil."
C. Use their gifts for God's glory. 1Peter 4:10-11 (ESV) "As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies- in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen."
Ephesians 3:17 (ESV) "so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith- that you, being rooted and grounded in love,"
VI. Pray that they might be walking closely to Jesus.
John 15:4-5 (ESV) "Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing."
VII. Pray that they be rooted and grounded in love the foundation of it all.
In agriculture plants have strong roots that feed the plants. The deeper and wider the roots go the healthier the plants are.
In architecture the taller the building the deeper the foundation must be. The Empire State building's foundation is about 55 feet (17 meters) deep. It is anchored directly into the hard Manhattan bedrock. The Petronas Towers in Malaysia has a foundation that is 400 feet (122 meters) deep because of the unstable local limestone and soil conditions.
Sometimes we can have all the head knowledge (about the Bible), but they miss the love part.
1 Corinthians 13:1-3 (ESV) "If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing."
Ephesians 3:18-19 (ESV) "may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God."
VIII. Pray that God would give understanding.
God has to strengthen us for us to even comprehend His love. God can communicate to Dempsey in ways we cannot.
IX. Pray that God would fill them.
1 Peter 1:15-16 (ESV) "but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in your conduct, since it is written, 'You shall be holy, for I am holy.'"
Pray for your children, pray for your family and friends. As people come to your mind, pray for them. Do not forget to pray for yourself. Pray for the church
Closing Scripture: Ephesians 3:20-21 (ESV) "Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations forever and ever. Amen."